1 Stop caring about everyone’s opinion of you.

对外人的评价保持淡定。

For the most part, what other people think and say about you doesn’t matter. When I was younger I let the opinions of my high school and early college peers influence my decisions. And at times they steered me away from ideas and goals I strongly believed in. I realize now, many years later, that this was a foolish way to live, especially when I consider that nearly all of these people whose opinions I cared so much about are no longer a part of my life.

大多数情况下，别人怎么看、怎么议论你并不重要。在我读高中和刚进大学那会儿，我做决定时很容易受同学影响。有时，他们会驱使我放弃强大的信念和目标。多年后的今天，我才意识到，那样的生活方式很不明智。特别是当我发现，那些曾提出被我视为“宝贵意见”的人，现在几乎全都离开了我的生活圈。

Unless you’re trying to make a great first impression (job interview, first date, etc.), don’t let the opinions of others stand in your way. What is important is how you feel about yourself. Read The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.

除非你想留个好的第一印象（工作面试、初次约会等需要），否则别让他人的看法妨碍你。你自己对自己的感觉才是重要的。建议去读《高效人士的7个习惯》这本书。

2 Stop caring about being politically correct.

【助你走好人生路的成功贴士(上)】相关文章：

★ 工作经验对于跳槽的意义

★ 什么样的人注定无法成功？

★ 学校这个东西真的有用吗？

★ 人生的四季各有滋味

★ Facebook要研发自己的数字货币

★ 给玛利亚·施莱弗的建议

★ Gap可能要起死回生，拆分成两家公司上市

★ 美国空气最清新的城市

★ 幸福人生教给我们的10个启迪

★ 调查:女人容貌比能力吃香