卡兰德说:“很多情况下,我们答应孩子的要求是因为我们想让生活过得容易些,然而事实是,我们只是在给未来制造问题。”
'We are helping create a generation of youngsters who are blind to the needs of others and the necessity of hard work. We are giving them a sense of entitlement that won’t serve them well as adults.
“我们正在帮助培养出一代无视他人需要、不懂得辛苦劳作必要性的年轻人。我们这样做会让他们认为一切都是应得的,这种想法在他们成年后有害无利。”
'Children learn fast – if we sometimes change our mind, they quickly realise it might be worth lying on the floor and screaming for it.
“孩子们学得很快——如果我们有时候改变想法满足孩子的要求,他们会很快意识到也许躺在地上尖叫、吵着要东西是值得的。”
'Make sure you and your partner are working together on this. Be consistent. And try not to get caught up in competition with other family or friends.'
“请务必让你和你的伴侣在这方面齐心协力。而且要始终如一。尽量使自己不要卷入和其他家庭或朋友的竞争当中。”
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