礼尚往来。没有人喜欢总是满足别人的要求（除非你们在玩调教游戏），但每个人都喜欢互惠互利。如果你想让你的爱人为你做点什么，而你又不确定他/她是不是愿意，那么避免冲突的最快方法就是给他/她点甜头。比如说：“没问题，我周一晚上陪你看足球赛，前提是你下次带我去看电影。”

6. Two heads are better than one. Being in a relationship basically means you've made a merger; you've not only joined assets but inherited the other's problems as well. Rather than looking at his problems as merely his own, tackle them together. For example, if he's gaining weight, rather than pushing him to diet on his own, enroll in an exercise program together.

两个人总比一个人好。一段爱情的本质是两个人的结合；你们不光拥有了共同的财产，同时也必须面对对方的问题。不要总把对方的问题看成是他/她一个人的问题，你们应该共同来解决。比如说，如果他长胖了，不要逼着他一个人节食，而应该两个人一起参加锻炼。

7. Distance makes the heart grow fonder. Maintain your own friendships and occasionally have a night out without your significant other. Doing things without your s.o. not only makes you miss him or her, it also keeps you sane. And, in case the relationship doesn't work out, you'll still have your friends.

适当的距离拉近心的距离。保持你自己的朋友圈，偶尔也可以抛下另一半出去住一晚。偶尔尝试没有另一半的生活不仅让你更想念他/她，还会让你保持理智。而且，万一你们的感情出了问题，你还有自己的朋友。

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