2. Ask open ended questions
问开放性的问题
Questions which require more than just a “yes” or “no” answer encourage people to talk for longer, taking the pressure off you. For example, if you ask, “Do you like this restaurant?” a one word answer might be given. However, asking, “What do you think of this restaurant?” offers a much greater possibility to keep the conversation going.
提出那些回答不是Y/N的问题可以鼓励人们多谈论,从而减轻了你身上的谈话压力。举个例子,如果你问:“你喜欢这家餐馆吗?”那你得到的回复就是一句话。然而,假如你问:“你觉得这家餐馆怎么样?”,这就极有可能让对话继续不停。
3. Talk about your passions
谈谈让你充满激情的话题
Have you ever noticed that when you talk about something you are passionate about, time seems to flow? You are able to talk for hours without any awkward silences.
你有没有注意到当你谈论那些让你充满激情的话题时,时间似乎一晃就过去了。你可以说上好几个小时而且还不会出现窘人 的沉闷。
If you find a conversation stalling, direct the conversation towards something you would have no trouble talking about; your passions.
如果你发现谈话开始变得尴尬,那么把对话引导到你觉得谈起来毫不费力的话题上:那些让你充满激情的事物。
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