7种不伤害人的拒绝方式_BEC初级作文

7种不伤害人的拒绝方式

3."我想这么做，但是____"。

This is a great way of saying that you like the idea, you are willing to help, but you just can not do it at the moment.

这是一种很好的方式，说你喜欢这样做，你想去帮忙，但是你现在没法做。

Note: Just do not go into a lengthy justification of why you can not do it.

注意：不要进一步说明你为什么不能做。

First, it is not necessary. Time is a limited resource and when you say "yes" to one task, you have to say "no" to other opportunities that might be more important, urgent and beneficial to you at the moment. Second, offering a lengthy explanation makes you sound guilty and unsure, so people might push further to see if you will agree.

首先，没有必要。每个人的时间都是有限的，当你对一项任务说"是"的时候，你就不得不对另外的一些机遇说"不"，尽管那些机遇现在对你来说可能是更加重要、紧急或有益的。另外，进一步解释会让你有种负罪感和不确定感，人们可以进一步劝说你看你是否会同意。

4."I'm not the best person to help on this. Why don't you try X?"

4."我不是这项任务的最佳人选。要不你们看看X行不行？"

If you feel that you can not contribute much to the task, have no time or lack the resources, do not beat around the bush! Let the person know it up front. This, however, does not mean that you can not be helpful. You can still refer the person to a lead they can follow up on.