数字时代的恋爱指南：分手了照片短信怎么办？_BEC初级作文

数字时代的恋爱指南：分手了照片短信怎么办？

有这种想法不必羞愧。当你正在伤心的时候，不想看到那个前任的照片；抑或是不想看到跟ta之间的数百条短信、各种亲密照一样，这些都可以理解。分手后我们都会变得极度敏感，尤其身处这个充斥着过度信息的时代。对于我们来讲，心上的伤口会被洒更多的盐巴。这不是件容易事儿。但是让我们来试着应对吧。

Wait

等待

Wait a month. Wait longer. Wait until you can look at his or her Facebook profile without feeling something bad in your chest, or the urge to throw your laptop. No good decision, in this century or any other, has ever been made in the fresh wake of a breakup. Please, please don't throw your laptop.

等一个月，或更久。直到你可以坦然直视ta的Facebook主页而不会感到阵阵心痛，或有种直接想扔了笔记本的冲动。从古到今，没有什么正确的决定是在刚分手的时候做出的。请千万遏制住那种冲动，别扔了笔记本。

Photos

照片

Don't delete these. Really, don't. You'll regret it if you do. Not because maybe someday you'll get back together and be so glad you kept it all. You probably won't. But these pictures aren't just small monuments to a failed romance, they're high-resolution instants from your life, recorded forever, unfading. It's not just your ex's smile that you miss and wish you could have back, it's the way you were at a particular moment a shutter snapped and a digital sensor touched light. It's your dog, your apartment, your haircut, your vacation, your job, your old bike—everything that was you for that moment, regardless of who you were dating and who you loved. This is matter you'll want years and decades from now—don't be rash and trash it.