乐观人士如是说：乐观人群的10个好习惯_BEC初级作文

乐观人士如是说：乐观人群的10个好习惯

Instead of hanging on to ideas, beliefs, and even people that are no longer healthy for them, they trust their judgement to let go of negative forces in their lives. Especially in terms of relationships, they subscribe to The Relationship Prayer which goes:

乐观人群不会纠结于理念、信仰和那些会给他们带来负面情绪的人。他们会相信自己的判断，让生活中的负面压力顺其自然。尤其在人际关系方面，他们信奉这样几句话：

I will grant myself the ability to trust the healthy people in my life …

对于给我的生活带来积极影响的人，我会尽我所能去信任他们，

To set limits with, or let go of, the negative ones …

对于给我带来消极影响的人，我会保持距离、或者由他们去，

And to have the wisdom to know the DIFFERENCE!

而且我有智慧分辨这两种人的不同！

2. Positive people don’t just have a good day – they make a good day.

乐观人群不仅会享受美好的一天，他们还会创造美好的一天

Waiting, hoping and wishing seldom have a place in the vocabulary of positive individuals. Rather, they use strong words that are pro-active and not reactive. Passivity leads to a lack of involvement, while positive people get very involved in constructing their lives. They work to make changes to feel better in tough times rather than wish their feelings away.