很多人会浪费大把时间追忆过去,让回忆占据当下生活。请别浪费时间试图活在另一段时光或另一个地方。过去的就让它过去吧。你必须接受已然发生的结局,开始新的生活。因此,现在就请尘封回忆之门——不是因为骄傲、无能或自尊,而是因为过去你已经一个一个开启过它们,已经知道它们指引不了什么了。
4. Retelling a self-defeating story.
4、重复挫败自己的故事
If we continue to repeat a story in our head, we eventually believe that story and embrace it – whether it empowers us or not. So the question is: Does your story empower you? Don’t place your mistakes on your mind, their weight may crush your current potential. Instead, place them under your feet and use them as a platform to view the horizon. Remember, all things are difficult before they are easy. What matters the most is what you start doing now.
如果我们在脑中反复讲述一个故事,最后我们就会信以为真并予以接受——不论这故事对我们是否有利。问题是:故事对你有利吗?请别对自己的错误铭记不忘,因为它们会扼杀你现在的潜能。相反你应该把它们踩在脚下,让它们成为你开阔视野的垫脚石。请记住:万事总是开头难。你现在所做的事情才是最重要的。
5. Attempting to fit in by becoming someone else.
5、为合群入流而迷失自我
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