But I will say this about Barbie (and all the rest of that princess garbage): I played with that stuff for a solid decade when I was growing up and here I am now at a healthy weight with a healthy outlook about my body and image. I have a masters degree and have a successful career and a published book. If Barbie were really so damaging to my femininity and self-image I highly doubt I could list all of the latter as accomplishments.
但对于芭比娃娃(以及系列相关的公主垃圾玩具)我想说的是,我小时候玩了整整十年的洋娃娃,现在我是一个拥有体重标准、保持健康外貌的女性,我获得了硕士学位,我事业成功还出版了一本书。如果芭比娃娃真的对我的女性特质和个人形象有破坏性的影响,那么我真是非常怀疑我列出的那些成就是怎么来的。
But I get it too. It's hard for women to maintain a healthy self-image. It's hard not to obsess over our weight and to wish we could afford more stylish clothes. It's hard not to covet someone else's hair or hips or eyelashes, and to spend inordinate amounts of time trying to achieve looks that we were never suited for in the first place.
但是我也懂,对女人来讲保持健康的形象很不容易。想要不被体重困扰,不奢求自己能有经济能力购买更时尚的衣服,这真的很难;不觊觎别的女生的发型、翘臀和睫毛,不在自己身上无节制的花时间试图让自己驾驭那些完全不适合的造型,这些也都太难了。
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