Ware写到了人们在生命最后获得的异常清晰的远见以及我们如何从他们的智慧中学习。 “当被问到他们任何的遗憾或任何他们会完全不同地处理的事时,”她说,“相同的主题一次又一次地出现。”
Here are the top five regrets of the dying, as witnessed by Ware:
这里是将死之人的五大遗憾,正如Ware所见证的那样:
1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
"This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it."
1.我希望我能有勇气过一种忠于自己的生活,而不是其他人希望我过的生活。
“这是所有人最常见的遗憾。当人们意识到他们生命即将结束以及清楚地回顾往昔,很容易看到很多梦想都不曾实现。大多数人没有兑现甚至一半的梦想且将不得不死去,知道这是由于他们做出的或没有做的选择。很少人意识到健康会带来自由直到他们不再拥有它。”
2. I wish I hadn't worked so hard.
"This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children's youth and their partner's companionship. Women also spoke of this regret, but as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence."
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