不要说话:你应该保持沉默的十大场合_BEC初级作文

不要说话:你应该保持沉默的十大场合

真人不露相。他们总是巧妙的把自己的知识插入讨论之中。所以如果饭局上你的朋友或同事把你推出来说“嗨，他是这方面的专家，” 千万别觉得你得把肚子里的知识全部倒出来。真的没必要证实自己。不如隐藏一下，说句谢谢，对自己干的事情做一个简洁谦逊的总结。要表现的自己像一直需要被鼓励的人那样。

6) When under fire

6. 矛盾激化时

Getting in trouble is a part of life and sometimes the person in power just needs to run through everything they’re upset about. Bosses yell, referees yells, our spouses yell. It does not always help to talk back. On the other hand, be silent and take the blows, then find a good time to say a concise sorry. Even if you’re not in the wrong. This will get you out of jail and on with your life a whole lot quicker.

人生总是难免遇到麻烦。有权利的人往往需要对所有让他们失望的事发泄一下。老板在咆哮，裁判在咆哮，我们的另一半也在咆哮。其实并不需要去回应他们。不如保持沉默，一一承受，再找个合适的时机简单说一句对不起,哪怕你没有做错。你就会脱离苦海，生活进展更快。

7) When talking about money

7. 谈到钱的问题

Don’t mention your salary when others are bragging and don’t whine about being owed money. Lend to your friends, it’ll come back around. An aura of quiet confidence around money issues will help you someday find riches.