4. People you love will hurt you and disappoint you. Try to look beyond their mistakes and understand their intentions.

你爱的人会伤害你并让你大失所望。努力发现他们错误之外的闪光点，理解他们的意图。

I used to be black and white with friendships. A friend was either a BFF or a mere acquaintance; there wasn't much gray area in between. And if a friend hurt me or didn't encompass the values I did, I'd cut that friendship off.

我曾非常极端地看待友情。要么一生的朋友要么点头之交，没有太多中间地带。如果一个朋友伤害了我或者不认可我的所作所为，那我们的友谊将就此了结。

But I've learned that we all can act a little selfish, forget to consider the people we love, or take others for granted. And that's okay. People go through phases, people make mistakes -- that shouldn't discount a history of times your friend was there for you.

但是，我认识到我们大家都有点自私，会忘记为我们所爱的人去考虑或认为别人为我们做事理所当然。其实没什么，人们会经历各种阶段，人们会犯错误——这些不应该抹杀他们曾给予你的支持。

Sometimes a friendship just needs time to breathe before it can flow again. And that's okay, too.

有时为摆脱僵局，给友情一个喘息的机会。这样也是可以的。

5. One's nature does not change.

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