9. Holding on to someone who hurts you.
放不开伤害过你的人
Sometimes you have to walk away from people, not because you don’t care, but because they don’t. When someone hurts you time and time again, accept the fact that they don’t care about you. It’s a tough pill to swallow, but it’s necessary medicine. Do NOT strive to impress them any further. Waste not another second of your time trying to prove something to them. Nothing needs to be proven. Do not act with any thought of them ever again.
有时候你要离开一些人,不是因为你不在意他们,而是他们不在意你。如果有人一次又一次的伤害你,那么你该醒醒了,他们根本就不在意你。良药苦口。别再试图改善在他们眼中的印象,别再浪费时间向他们证明什么,你不需要证明任何东西,别再为他们做任何事。
10. Over-amplifying the importance of physical attractiveness.
过度夸大外表的重要性
Infatuating yourself with someone simply for what they look like on the outside is like choosing your favorite food based on color instead of taste. It makes no sense. It’s innate, invisible, unquantifiable characteristics that create lasting attraction.
靠外表来选对象,从某种程度而言就是通过颜色而非味道来选择食物。毫无意义,看不见的且无法计算的内在品质才是真正持久的魅力。
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