那种你不想与之有任何瓜葛的自私朋友,总觉得自己是与众不同的。他们总认为自己理应受到特殊对待,总是要你提供或大或小的帮助——哪怕你才认识他们。
Sign 2 – For Him, You’re A Detail
特征2:你在他心里根本不算什么
After you do him a favor, the selfish friend barely says thank you, and if he does, it doesn’t sound sincere. Try and ask him for a favor, though, and see him brush it off and never follow through with it. He or she can give you an evasive answer like “ok, I’ll call you later about this”, but it never happens. Sometimes, they just act like you never asked for anything.
就算你帮了他,自私的朋友也很少感谢你;就算他说了谢谢,听上去也不是发自肺腑。你可以试着请他帮忙,他肯定会支支吾吾不付诸行动。或许他/她会含糊不清地跟你说:“好的,等我有空打电话给你再说吧。” 但其实他/她压根儿不会打电话给你。有时候,他们装得像模像样,就好像你从来没提过请他们帮忙一样。
Sign 3 – Shady Plans
特征3:不靠谱的计划
The selfish person can cancel a meeting with you at the last minute, giving you fake excuses, and rarely saying “I’m sorry”, because he thinks he’s too special to apologies When you suggest that you meet with him, he carefully thinks of all the other choices he has, and if he has nothing “better” to do, he’ll meet you. He usually calls when he’s bored and has no other plans.
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