自私的人总向你谈起他的其他朋友，但却又总是单独见你，从不将你介绍给他的朋友们。他在你面前表现得好像认识很多很多人，但当你仔细听他所说的话时，会发现其实都只是泛泛之交。他总是跟自己不甚了解的人交往，没什么真心朋友。但他还是会乐此不疲地谈论着自己跟某些大人物如何如何。

If you want to laugh, ask him if he could introduce you to so and so: He’ll give you the stupidest excuses why that can’t happen “now”, but maybe a “little bit later.” It actually never happens, but it’s funny to see him try to evade your request.

要是你不相信，可以试着问他能否将你介绍给他的朋友——然后他会给出各种好笑的理由，说什么“现在还不行，以后再说吧”。其实根本就没有“以后”，只是他这么慌不择路地躲闪言辞实在很可笑。

Sign 5 – To Him, You’re Boring

特征5：在他看来，你很无聊

He never takes the time to understand what’s special or interesting about you. To him, conversation is just a means of gaining more power. He sure looks like he’s listening, but in reality, he’s just waiting for you to shut up so he can take control of the conversation, again. For example, when you say stuff like “Oh! Hey, you know what I just read in USA Today,… etc,” he says stuff like “Yea, of course!”, or “I know that but, here’s what’s really interesting…” With sentences like that, he just downplays anything you say as banal, and common knowledge.

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