In any given situation, a sacrifice requires you to give up something you value more for something you value less. When you practice this concept in relationships it breeds resentment and anger. Instead, understand that your partner has had a life before you, and respect that he or she will not and should not change everything just because you asked.
在任何情况下,牺牲都意味着你需要放弃某些自己珍视的东西,来获得你不是那么在乎的东西。如果在一段感情里,你做出了牺牲,只会滋长你的怨恨和愤怒。相反,你需要理解另一半遇到你之前的生活,尊重他,不要希冀他会因为你的要求改变所有的事情。
For example, if your partner has a friend that makes you really uncomfortable because you just know that they have feelings for your partner. You have 3 choices; only one of which will lead to a healthy relationship:
比如,你的另一半有一个让你觉得非常不舒服的朋友,因为他/她也对你的另一半有感觉,这种情况下你有三种选择:只有一种做法是最合适正确的。
Ask your partner to stop being friends with this person as a necessary sacrifice they must make to stay in a relationship with you.
让另一半远离这个人,就当是为了你俩的感情做出的牺牲。
Pretend like you don’t care until all hell breaks out.
假装完全不在意,直到自己再也受不了。
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