实用社交课堂：9个招人嫌的交际习惯你有吗？_BEC初级作文

实用社交课堂：9个招人嫌的交际习惯你有吗？

只有在紧张激烈的会议上、遇到非常紧急的情况或激动地与多年不见的好友重逢，打断讲话才情有可原。所以，打断讲话也得看情况分场合。多数时候，打断讲话会错过精彩内容，而且显得你只在意自己的想法。

8. An unsupportive attitude.

不支持的态度。

The greatest compliment you can give to someone is to believe in them and let them know you care. When you see something true, good and beautiful in someone, don’t hesitate to express your appreciation. When you see something that is not true, good and beautiful in someone, don’t neglect to give them your wholehearted blessings and best wishes.

恭维他人最好的办法就是相信他们，让他们知道你很在乎。如果发现别人优秀的方面，请不要吝啬你的赞美；如果发现别人不太好的地方，也要记得多多鼓励、真心祝愿。

9. Trying to please everyone.

想讨好所有人。

This one is about keeping your sanity. No matter how loud their opinions are, others cannot choose who you are. The question should not be, “Why don’t they like me when I’m being me?” it should be, “Why am I wasting all my time and energy worrying what they think of me?” If you are not hurting anyone with your actions, keep moving forward with your life. Be happy. Be yourself. If others don’t like it, let them be. Life isn’t about pleasing everybody.