你在实现有效沟通时最有用的三个字是:“比如说”。如果你发现别人的脸上出现了费解的神情,你最好的回应就是这三个字:比如说。如果你这样做了,并附以一个相关的例子来说明,别人会对于你所讲的有一个框架认识,并能够更好的理解那是什么。
Communicating effectively is one of THE MOST underrated and MOST valuable skills a person can have. And let me tell you on a personal level, there’s nothing more refreshing than dealing with people who take the time to prepare what they have to say and back it up with clear examples. It’s a very rare skill nowadays.
有效沟通是最容易被忽视的,也是一个人能够拥有的最有价值的本领之一。从我个人的角度来说,如果和一个花时间准备自己的观点并用清楚的例子加以说明的人打交道是一件再好不过的事情了。但是现如今,有这项本领的人已经很少了。
#3. Social Skills
3. 社交本领
Closely related to communicating effectively are social skills in general. After you graduate, you’re not going to be dealing with your high school or frat buddies anymore. You’ll be dealing with many people from different backgrounds, countries, and more importantly different age groups, so it would be wise to learn how to socialize outside your own group.
一般意义上来讲,社交本领就是紧密并有效的保持交流。当你毕业之后,你所要面对的就不再是你的中学同学或是哥们了。你将要面对的是有着各种背景的,可能是来自不同国家的,更重要的一点是不同年龄段的人群,因此学习怎样同你自己圈子以外的人打交道将是很明智的选择。
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