通过给予,高价值的人内心感到了充实。他往往适当地给予别人独特的礼物,但是这样做,他却并没有忽略自己。
6. Ability to Empathize and Forgive
同情和原谅的能力
A high-quality person is capable of relating to those that have wronged him. He is capable of forgiving both outsiders, and himself. Kindness and benefit of doubt go a long way, and holding resentment and bitterness does not allow one to live to his fully capacity. Forgiveness is emancipation from chains of resentment that keep one fettered to the past.
高素质的人能和不公正对待他的人相处。他能够原谅局外人和他自己。善良和假定对方无辜是很有帮助的,而怀有怨恨和痛苦则不能让他发挥出自己的全部能力。宽恕让人从怨恨中解脱出来,而怨恨则让人束缚在过去中。
7. Effective Prioritizing
有效排列事物的优先次序
This world is complicated. We are pulled in multiple directions every day, willingly, or not. Smart people have a strict list of priorities, with interpersonal relationships at the top. There is a difference between having a priority list and living one’s life according to the list.
世界是错综复杂的。无论我们愿不愿意, 我们每天都会受到到多种方向力量的影响。聪明的人有精确的事情优先级列表,顶端是人际关系。有优先级列表和按照优先级列表生活是有区别的。
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