每一场聊天对你来说都如同战场。你要让每个人都同意你所说的,所以你从来不会让步。你总是对的,是吗?
Solution: Accept the fact that everyone is entitled to his own opinions. You don’t need to force them into agreeing with you—they’ll just choose to walk away from you instead. Arrogance causes some of these common mistakes in a conversation to happen. Stay humble.
解决办法:每个人都有权有自己的观点,要接受这个事实。你没有必要强迫他人同意你,否则他们会选择远离你。自大会让你在聊天中犯这种常见的错误,要谦虚。
7. Do you talk about awkward topics with a person you barely know?
你是否和一个你不怎么了解的人谈论尴尬的话题?
“Hey, I just met you, but listen to me talk about my past relationships, my nagging digestive problems and my balding hair.”
“嗨,我们刚认识,不过听我来聊聊我之前的恋情,我讨厌的消化问题还有我的秃头吧。”
Solution: Stay away from topics involving religion, sex, politics and negativity, especially when you’ve just become acquainted with someone. Focus on safe topics such as hobbies, common interests and the topic of the conference you’re in.
解决办法:远离那些涉及到宗教、性、政治和消极性的话题,尤其是你刚刚认识某人的时候。专注于那些安全的话题,比如爱好、共同兴趣,以及你参加过的会议议题。
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