Some readers urge you to have a heart-to-heart with human resources to explain that the timing of conception is unfortunate: that you weren’t trying to trick anyone. This is shockingly bad advice. It is none?of your employer’s business whether you planned to get pregnant, or whether you did a Cherie Blair – who (bizarrely) revealed her last child was conceived when she forgot to pack her diaphragm on a trip to Balmoral.

一些读者建议你与人力资源部做一次开诚布公的谈话，解释一下怀孕的时点很不恰当：以此表明你并不是有意戏弄大家。这是一个糟糕透顶的建议。你的雇主根本不关心你是否计划怀孕，还是做了和切尔西?布莱尔(Cherie Blair)一样的事——她奇怪地透露，自己的最后一个孩子是因为在一趟去巴尔莫勒尔(Balmoral)的旅行中忘记带避孕用具而怀上的。

Your advice

读者的建议

Unplanned plan

计划外的计划

I also got pregnant about a week after I started a new job. I stretched the truth a little and said that I had been trying for a long time, so was not using?contraception and it happened. I did not want my HR manager to think I had done it on purpose and I did not want them to think I had been irresponsible and it was unplanned!

我也是在开始一项新工作大约一周以后怀孕的。我稍微夸大了一点事实，称自己为了怀孕已经尝试了很长时间，因此没有采取避孕措施并意外怀孕。我不希望人力资源经理认为我是故意这么做的，我也不希望他们认为我是一个不负责任的人，因为这本不在我的计划之内。

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