好朋友在身边：如何做个真正的朋友_BEC初级作文

好朋友在身边：如何做个真正的朋友

如果你不能完整的接受别人，那么你永远不会知道友情的真正含义。别再试图去“改造”他们，哪怕他们的行为在你看来多么疯狂。

5. Challenge them to grow.

刺激他们去成长。

“Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.” ——Helen Keller

“要么冒险，要么就一事无成，这就是人生。”——海伦·凯勒

If a friend tells you they plan to drop 10 lbs, tell them, “10 lbs? Please. I bet you can get so fit that people’s jaws will drop when you walk past them.” Throw down the gauntlet, make sure they know you believe they can do it, and ask: “Challenge accepted?”

如果有朋友告诉你他们计划要瘦十磅，你应该说：“十磅？拜托，我打赌你肯定能瘦到当你走过时人们都惊到张口结舌。”撂下挑战，这样他们就会知道你相信他们能做到，不妨再问一句：“敢不敢试试？”

6. Be vulnerable.

敞开心扉。

“I found that the more truthful and vulnerable I was, the more empowering it was for me.” ——Alanis Morissette

“我发现我越诚实越坦诚，就会获得越多的能量。”——艾拉妮丝·莫莉塞特

Hiding your flaws might be appropriate in a job interview, but it’s not something you should do in a conversation with a friend you trust. Never hesitate to speak your thoughts and feelings in their raw and unfiltered form. Who knows? They might open up and disclose a surprising secret in return. Full disclosure will strengthen your friendship and make you both feel at ease in each other’s company.