社会大课堂：社交达人的7个秘密_BEC初级作文

社会大课堂：社交达人的7个秘密

Have you ever witnessed somebody who is so confident and fluent in conversations that it’s actually really impressive? How do they do it?

你是否遇过自信满满、谈笑风生的社交达人，给人印象尤为深刻？他们是怎么做到的呢？

We all know people who are beloved by everyone and seem able to make friends wherever they go. Some regard them with admiration tinged with a bit of envy, then shrug their shoulders and figure those people are just born with that special “something”. It might be surprising to learn that being popular is a skill that can be learned like any other.

我们都遇到过人见人爱的家伙，他们到哪儿似乎都能交上朋友。有人对他们既羡慕又嫉妒，最后耸耸肩觉得他们或许天生就有“万人迷”的本领。其实，“人见人爱”也是一种可以学习的技能哦！

Just as you wouldn’t expect to wake up one morning knowing how to play the piano, the key to success in making friends is setting goals and developing a game plan. Use these seven tips as the framework on which you build your skill set.

就像你不可能一觉醒来就变成钢琴高手一样，交朋友也需要设定目标、循序渐进。请参考以下7个贴士，训练自己成为社交达人吧！

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1. Be interested, not interesting

关注他人，而非以自我为中心

A widespread misconception is that popular people are the ones talking about their latest promotion or exciting vacation they took or wild party they attended. Hearing the occasional interesting story is fine, but most people become bored or resentful listening to these blow-by-blow accounts. It’s far more effective to take a genuine interest in the lives of others and get them talking about themselves. And remember that no word sounds as magical as one’s own name. Addressing people by name makes them feel special.