说“然后呢？”是个很不错的聊天技巧，既避开窥探之嫌，又能鼓励对方详细道来。如果同事跟你说他正打算换新工作，你只要问一句“然后呢？”，他或许就能说得更具体一些。

This can work well with friends, family, co-workers, or someone you are meeting for the first time. It shows people you are truly invested in hearing what they have to say.

这一招既可以对付亲友同事，也可以用在初次见面的人身上。它表明你真的很想听他们讲出来。

7. Request Advice

征询建议

Asking for advice shows that you value someone else’s opinion. Just because you ask for advice, it doesn’t mean you have to follow it. Be willing to respectfully listen to someone else’s point of view.

征询建议表明你很看重对方的观点。当然，问归问，你不一定非得采纳对方的建议。虚心听取他人看法便可。

You can ask for advice on both serious and simple things in life. Ask your co-worker if she likes your new jacket or ask a friend how you should handle a situation. Asking for advice can make others feel important.

生活中无论大事小事，你都可以讨教经验。问问同事认为你的新衣服怎么样，问问朋友你该如何处理某个情况。征询建议能让对方觉得自己很重要。

8. Ask for an Explanation

寻求解释

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