In far too many classes that I have taught over the last 5 years, I have heard the refrain from students, "This is the first time we are learning this." Or, even more disturbing, "I wish I had learned this earlier in my college career."
在过去5年的时间里,在我教过的课堂中,总能从学生那里听到这样的说法,“这是我们第一次学习这方面的知识。” 或者能听到更令人不安的说法,“我希望在大学中我能早点学到这方面的知识。”
What are some of the life lessons I would teach every college student--and career professional--if I had the chance? Here are seven of the most important lessons I fervently wish everyone could have the chance to learn:
如果我有机会,我会教给每个大学生(也包括专业老师)哪些人生课呢?这里有七堂最重要的课程,我热切希望每个人都能有机会学习一下:
1. It's a waste of time and energy to find the person, people or organization to "blame" for your troubles.
把自己面临的困境归咎于某个人、某群人或某个组织,这是在浪费时间和精力。
There are so many things in life that aren't fair; Why? Because you can't right all of the wrongs, and you won't ever be at peace if you are looking for fair. Does that mean you don't try to change things or fix yourself? Of course not! But, more importantly, focus on those things you can control and you can influence. Spend minimal time on those things that are completely out of your control. Instead of blaming and finger-pointing, figure out what you can do to make a difference.
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