如果参加聚会或跟一群人在一起感觉会把你淹没,那就从小处慢慢来。对杂货店店员,或餐馆服务员说声“谢谢,”。从小的交谈开始逐渐练习。
3. Ask Open-Ended Questions
问一些开放式问题
If you want the attention off you in a conversation, get familiar with open-ended questions. Encourage others to talk so you won’t have to make the idle chit-chat. Ask questions that require more than a yes or no answer and you may open the door to invite the other person to keep the conversation going.
在一个对话交谈中,如果你想把注意力从自己身上转移开,就要熟悉一些开放式问题。鼓励别人去多说,这样你就不必说些家长里短的话了。问一些需要不只“是/否”回答的问题,这样你就敞开大门邀请别人参与,让对话进行下去了。
4. Encourage Others to Talk About Themselves
鼓励别人讨论自己
Most people really enjoy talking about themselves. Ask a question about a person’s career, hobbies, or family. Show you’re interested in hearing what is being said.
大部分人真的喜欢对自己大加讨论,问一下对方关于职业、爱好或家庭方面的问题。你要对别人的说话内容表现出有兴趣去听的状态。
5. Create Goals for Yourself
为自己设立目标
Establish some small goals for yourself. Perhaps you want to practice one particular skill or maybe you want to start attending a social activity in your community. Establish a goal and begin to work on strategies that will improve your social life.
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