中国男性对养育子女的看法与美国男性不同。在美国今年早些时候完成的一项类似调查中,有超过80%的美国父亲说管教孩子是他们的首要任务,排在第二位的是辅导功课。
Zhang Xiaoyan, a housewife in Shanghai, complained that driving the children is the only task her husband does at home. Men are under greater stress to support the family by working long hours, so they want 'easy' tasks that don't involve a lot of thinking, she said.
上海的一位家庭主妇张晓燕(音)抱怨说,开车接送孩子是她丈夫在家做的唯一一件事。她说,男性面临更大的压力,他们需要加班加点的工作来支撑整个家,所以他们希望在家能做一些不用太费脑子的“简单”任务。
Since those long hours prevent many fathers from spending much time with their children, they don't want to be the one to scold them for not doing their homework, she added.
她还说,工作时间长使很多父亲没有太多的时间与孩子相处,他们不希望自己是那个因孩子没有做作业而训斥他们的人。
'They want to make up for not being there most of the time, and they want to be the good cop,' Ms. Zhang said. 'So moms are always the bad cop, which is fine because kids have a stronger bonding with us.'
张晓燕说,他们希望弥补自己在孩子成长过程中的大部分时间无法伴其左右的遗憾,他们希望作好警察。所以妈妈们总是充当坏警察,这没什么,因为孩子与我们的关系更亲密。
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