“Generally we marry ourselves. We go out and find someone who mirrors the things we like about ourselves, ” says Rick, who began looking at spendthrifts and tightwads in relationships when he married a tightwad. “But a tightwad doesn’t like being a tightwad. A spendthrift does not like being a spendthrift. It turns out they don’t want a second one of themselves in the home.” Rick explains that the differences initially lead to attraction but eventually becomes less fun when you need to make decisions of economic consequence.
自打娶了个小气老婆之后,里克就开始研究情侣关系中的败家子和吝啬鬼,他表示,“通常来说,我们会和同类人结婚。我们出去约会,寻找那些和我们兴趣相投的人。但是极其抠门的人不喜欢成为吝啬鬼。挥霍无度的人也不喜欢成为败家子。事实证明,他们都不喜欢在家里看到第二个自己。”里克解释说,最初的性格差异会导致爱情吸引,但是当需要做出有一定经济影响的决定时,这就没那么好玩了。
Around this time last year, a much talked about New York Times article reveled a trend of young adults asking for their love interest’s credit score to determine if he or she is worth pursuing. In one anecdote a 31 year old flight attendant was quickly disenchanted when a suitor asked about her credit score on their very first date.
去年大约这个时候,《纽约时报》(New York Times)刊出的一篇文章引发了热烈的讨论,文章报道美国年轻人流行打听自己心仪对象的信用评分,以衡量对方是否值得追求。有这样一段轶事,当追求者在双方第一次约会中问及她的信用评分时,一位31岁的空姐突然立刻不再抱幻想。
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