改变话题
When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.
当你怀疑一场对话即将开始讨论负面话题,改变这个话题,赢得正能量。当然,你这样做的时候也不能忽略对方所谈论的内容。
Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.
听听他们的评论,但不要等到他们开始向你抱怨而收获快乐,赶快转移话题。
6. Talk about solutions, not problems
谈论解决办法,而不是问题本身
Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.
有时候,如果你想要对付那些负能量的人,改变话题行不通。但这并不意味着你就无法积极一些。
I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.
我明白,当有人开始向我抱怨时,我一时不知道该说些什么。其实关键在于你可以就问题的解决办法做出回应。
You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”
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