“我们认为一些没有结婚打算就住在一起的恋人,一定程度上可能会因为两人同居的原因就草率走进婚姻的殿堂,”Rhoades说。“在同居前双方明确对彼此的责任以及同居的意义对未来关系的发展是明智之举,特别是鉴于同居比起约会来讲,可能导致难以分手。”Stanley说。
The three researchers also studied the reasons why couples decide to live together. That study, which appeared in the Journal of Family Issues, shows that most couples chose to live together in order to spend more time together. The second most popular reason is convenience, followed by testing the relationship. This is different than previous research that found most people cohabit to test the relationship.
三位研究者还就同居原因进行了调查。刊登在家事杂志中的结果显示,大多数选择同居的人,是为了能和对方多一些时间相处。第二个普遍原因是方便,其次是为了考验双方关系。不同的是,以前研究结果发现的第一原因是考验双方关系。
"Cohabiting to test a relationship turns out to be associated with the most problems in relationships," Rhoades says. "Perhaps if a person is feeling a need to test the relationship, he or she already knows some important information about how a relationship may go over time."
“为了考验双方关系而同居,经常与恋情出现问题有关,”Rhoades说。“如果一个人感觉需要考验彼此关系时,他或她已可能经对双方关系的走向有了一定的预测。”
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