“无条件”是指没有期望或设定限制。无条件去爱不是件容易的事情,大部分人也都做不到这一点。但是,真正的爱确实不需要试图去改变对方。
10. Love means putting other people’s needs equal to – or before – your own
爱意味着“忧他人之忧”
While people may be inherently selfish for survival purposes, this does not serve us well in relationships. If you don’t put other people’s needs at least equal to your own, they will grow resentful. Real love truly, genuinely cares about other people’s happiness and will go to great lengths to make people feel valued.
为了生存,人性难免自私;但自私却不利于培养感情。如果你没能把对方的需求当成自己的事情,那么对方或许会心怀不满。真正的爱会不容置疑地“乐他人之乐”,并且尽量让对方感到受重视。
11. Love is the highest vibration emotion that there is
爱是世界上最易波动的感情
Science has proven that emotions like love and fear have very different vibrations. They can actually measure them. Love vibrates very fast, whereas fear-based emotions (think jealousy, possessiveness, hatred, greed, etc.) vibrate very slowly. When you love completely and unconditionally, there is no fear involved. The vibrations of love make you feel good at all times.
科学表明,爱和恐惧具有截然不同的波动率。这种波动率可以实际测量出来:爱波动得非常快,而恐惧类情绪(如嫉妒、占有、憎恶、贪婪等)却波动得极其缓慢。如果你是全身心无条件去爱的话,恐惧是不存在的。起伏的爱会让你一直心情高昂。
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