14. Love understands and accepts differences
爱理解并接受差异
Let’s face it. We’re all different. Even identical twins aren’t exactly the same. They have different experiences and outlooks about the world. Real love doesn’t make other people wrong for being different. When people truly love another person, they accept their differences.
事实上人各有异。即便是长得相似的双胞胎也并不完全一样,他们也会有不同的经历和世界观。真正的爱不会因为对方不同而加以指责。若是真心相爱,人们会接受各自的差异。
15. Love varies in how it is expressed and accepted
表达与接受方式不同,爱也随之各异。
What makes us “feel loved” varies. In the book The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman, he explains the different ways people give and receive love: (1) Words (2) Acts of Service, (3) Giving Gifts, (4) Spending Time Together, and (5) Touch. It’s important to discover other people’s love language so you can understand each other and give love in a way that the other person recognizes it.
人们陷入爱的方式各有不同。在《爱的五种语言》一书中,盖瑞-恰普曼阐释了人们给予并接受爱的不同方式:(1)言语,(2)提供帮助,(3)赠送礼物,(4)共享时光,(5)肢体接触。因此,观察对方的爱语言很重要,这样你就能了解彼此,并以对方能够接受的方式表达爱意。
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