16. Love makes you feel good, not bad
爱让你情绪愉悦,而非低落
Many people confuse being in a relationship with love. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean there is true love present. If there is jealousy, possessiveness, constant fighting, abuse (verbal, emotional, or physical), that is not love. Refer back to #6. Those are fear-based emotions and actions.
许多人分不清相处和爱。两人相处并不一定就是真心相爱。如果伴有嫉妒、占有、经常性争吵,甚至口头、情感或身体上的暴力,那根本就不是爱。正如前面第6条所言,这些都是恐惧类的情绪和行为。
17. Love has empathy
爱能产生同感共鸣
Empathy is the ability to put yourself into another person’s shoes and see a situation from his/her point of view. Love has deep empathy. “When you hurt, I hurt.” People who truly love one another don’t want to hurt them. They want them to feel good. They care about their feelings and try everything they can to make them feel valued and worthy.
同感共鸣就是你要能站在对方立场并从对方角度看待情况。爱能产生强烈的共鸣。“你痛,我也痛。”所以真正相爱的人不忍伤害对方。他们希望看到对方开开心心,他们关心对方的情绪,愿意做任何事情让对方感到被重视。
Remember, love is happiness, appreciation, and feeling good. Anything other than that is not love. If we all loved one another as ourselves, the world would be a better place!
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