你觉得是时候说出心底的秘密了吗_BEC初级作文

你觉得是时候说出心底的秘密了吗

赫奇科克说，当她得知祖母的秘密时，她为自己的父亲感到很生气，他一直到去世都不知道自己的母亲有一个大家族。赫奇科克说：“它会折磨你，你会想知道发生了什么，还有她经历了些什么，让你很想知道自己错过了什么。”她也许永远不会知道祖母为什么会瞒着他们，但她猜测，在一个继母只比自己大三岁的大家族里长大肯定有很多痛苦的回忆。

We tend to think of secrets as skeletons in the closet, yet they aren't all negative, experts say. Sometimes we keep a secret to protect a loved one or a relationship. And we keep secrets from different people. There are the ones we keep from family members or other individuals, and then there are the ones the whole family knows and conspires to keep from everyone else.

专家说，我们往往会觉得秘密是见不得光的，但秘密也不全是负面的。有时我们保密是为了保护所爱的人或一段关系。我们跟不同的人保守秘密。有的秘密会瞒着家里人或其他人，有的秘密全家都知道并且齐心协力瞒着其他所有人。

Secrets are tantalizing plot drivers in many a movie and TV show ('Downton Abbey' fans, you know this). But keeping secrets from a loved one can put an emotional wedge in the relationship and change the way we communicate. Research shows that when we keep secrets from a mate, our relationship satisfaction goes down. And the more we ruminate about a secret, the more we want to reveal it.