你需要变强大：关于生活的14个事实_BEC初级作文

你需要变强大：关于生活的14个事实

7. You cannot be popular with everybody

你无法取悦每个人

It’s just chemistry. There are people who will rub you up the wrong way, will be bitchy, and will be downright unhelpful in the workplace. You can adopt a few avoidance strategies to reduce the fallout. Get over it and enjoy the company of the real friends you have.

只不过是个化学反应而已。在职场上有些人会惹恼你，有些人会让你抓狂，有些人对你丝毫起不到帮助作用。你可以采取一些规避策略以减少对你的影响。克服那些不利影响享受你的好朋友陪伴着你的美好时光。

8. You learn from failure

你要从失败中学习经验教训

Everybody screws up. You know that perfection is impossible. Every time you have a disaster, do not beat yourself up. Just ask yourself how you could have avoided the trap or planned it better. In this way you can learn a few life lessons from failure.

每个人都有搞砸的时候，人生不可能始终完美无缺。每次遭遇灾难你不要责怪自己，自己想办法如何避免落入陷阱或做个比较好的计划。这样你可以从失败中学习一些人生的经验教训。

9. Nobody else will praise you

没有人会表扬你

Time to give yourself a pat on the back for all your achievements. Don’t be afraid to list them in your head when you get discouraged. Give yourself a score for each finished task. This keeps you strong when facing life’s harsh realities.