想提高生活质量？你应该精简的11个方面_BEC初级作文

想提高生活质量？你应该精简的11个方面

你每周要接触多少给你带来消极情绪的人？想想谁又能给你鼓励？请多跟这样的人相处吧。我们常常把那些不太合拍的人留在身边太久。老熟人太多，生活也越有负担。如果对双方而言都不是双赢关系，那么请退出一步，把精力放在能够带来双赢关系的人身上吧。

Your Goals

你的目标

Motivated to write out your list of goal for the next month or 3 months? That is awesome. Just a few works of caution. Don’t write down too many. Often people write down over ten goals. The brain can only remember so much and the reality is you won’t get to them all. I suggest you look at your goals with the mindset of single digits. No more than ten, but ideally less than five. Keep the list focused and realistic.

你斗志昂扬，要列出下个月甚至后3个月的目标清单？这确实很不错，但还是要提醒你几句。目标不要列太多。一般人们会定下10个以上的目标。大脑只能记住这么多目标，但现实是你不可能实现所有目标。建议你还是将目标控制在个位数以内，不要超过10个，最好少于5个。让目标专一并且容易实现。

Your Commitments

你的承诺

A new favorite buzz saying in the self-help world is “No is the new Yes”. Take a moment to think about that saying. If you started saying no more how would your week and life look? Would you have more time to commit to the important goals and people in your life? Start to practice saying No when a request comes your way that you don’t want to do. If that feels too harsh try responding with these words “Let me get back to you”. Go away and come back with a no when you are in stronger mindset to say that.