因为你总是止不住去想,脑子里全是这事儿;而且因为这事儿被一拖再拖,你的情绪也跟着消极起来。所以还是把计划定小一些,然后采取行动吧。
3. Just take the first step.
只需迈出第一步。
When you start to look too far into the future any task or project can seem close to impossible. And so you shut down because you become overwhelmed and start surfing the internet aimlessly instead. That is one of the reasons why it is good to plan for the future but then to shift your focus back to today and the present moment.
如果你目光太远,那么任何任务或项目看上去几乎都无法达成了。接着你会望而却步,因为你觉得不堪重负,倒不如漫无目的地上网呢!所以,计划将来虽好,但紧接着必须把精力投入到此时此刻。
Then you just focus on taking the first step today. That is all you need to focus on, nothing else. By taking the first step you change you mental state from resistant to “hey, I’m doing this, cool”.
然后,你只需全心全意做好第一步就行。没错,别管其他的,只看第一步。开始了第一步后,你的心理会从抵触变成“嗨,我已经开始啦,还不错嘛!”
4. Start with the hardest task of your day.
从最棘手的任务着手。
Maybe you have an important call to make that you also fear might be uncomfortable. Maybe you know you have gotten behind on answering your emails and have big pile to dig into. Maybe you have the last five pages of your paper to finish.
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