Easy way out
最简单的方式 最痛苦的选择
According to Xia Xueluan, professor of sociology at Peking University, students break up because it’s the easiest choice.
北京大学社会学系教授夏学鸾认为,大学生之所以会选择分手,是因为那是一条最简单的解决办法。
“In graduation season, couples often face two problems: They will go to different places, and they will cultivate different world views due to their different social and work experiences,” he says. “Both problems are difficult for students to overcome. Therefore, breaking up is regarded as the easiest option.”
他说:“情侣们在毕业季时往往会面临两个难题:一是他们要各奔东西,二是由于不同的工作经验与社会阅历,他们的世界观也各异。而面对这两大难题,学生们往往束手无策,因此分手就成了最简单的解决方式”。
Zhang Jiarui, a relationship expert at Jiayuan.com, believes that students’ tendency to break up in graduation season is also the result of a lack of planning in their love life.
来自世纪佳缘交友网的情感专家张佳芮(音译)认为,大学生之所以容易在毕业季时选择分手,也是感情生活缺乏规划所致。
“Most of them rarely think about marriage. Even worse, they don’t yet have an idea of who their ideal spouse is,” she says. “Under these circumstances they show little responsibility toward their college relationship.”
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