10个改善人际交流能力的小技巧_BEC初级作文

10个改善人际交流能力的小技巧

闲谈是一种艺术，掌握它的人不多。对于和那些你基本上不认识的人在一起时不可避免的、尴尬的沉默时刻，提前做个计划很有帮助。FORD（家庭、职业、娱乐、梦想）方法能帮你想出讨论的话题，你也可以和别人分享信息，这有助于你们找到共同话题，把闲谈转为会话。从长远的角度上来看，所有的闲谈都会让你更加开心。

7. Tell a Story

7.讲故事

Stories are powerful. They activate our brains, make presentations suck less, make us more persuasive, and can even help us ace interviews. Learn the secrets of becoming a phenomenal storyteller with these rules from Pixar or by simply using the word "but" more to structure your narrative. Everyone's got at least one great story in them.

故事的力量是很强大的。它们能激活我们的大脑，让我们的演讲不会太差，让我们更有说服力，甚至能帮助我们在面试中脱颖而出。可以从皮克斯那里学习如何能把故事讲得精彩，或简单地用“但是”来调整你的叙述结构。每个人心中都至少有一个非常好的故事。

6. Ask Questions and Repeat the Other Person

6.问问题并重复他人的话

Let's face it, we've all drifted off when someone else was talking or misheard the other person. Asking questions and repeating the other person's last few words shows you're interested in what they say, keeps you on your toes, and helps clarify points that could be misunderstood (e.g., "So to recap, you're going to buy the tickets for Saturday?").