让我们面对现实吧，当别人在说话时，我们都会走神或听错话。问问题并重复他人最后说的几句话表明你对他们说的话感兴趣，这能帮你保持警觉，并有助于澄清容易误解的地方（比如，“也就是说，你想买周六的票？”）

It also helps for small talk and to fill in awkward silences. Instead of trying to stir up conversation on mundane topics like the weather, ask the other person questions (e.g., "Got any plans for the summer?" or "What are you reading lately?") and engage in their answers. It's more important to be interested than to be interesting.

这样也有助于闲谈，能使得沉默的时刻不那么尴尬。除了可以用像天气这样单调的话题来展开谈话，也可以问别人一些问题。（比如，“夏天有什么计划？”或“最近在读什么书？”），并就他们的回答进一步展开。感兴趣比有意思要重要得多。

5. Put Away the Distractions

5.去除干扰

It's pretty rude to use your phone while someone's talking to you or you're supposed to be hanging out with them. Maybe we can't get rid of all our distractions or put away technology completely, but just taking the time to look up could vastly improve our communication with each other.

当别人和你说话时，或你该和别人一起玩时，你在那里玩手机是不礼貌的行为。也许我们无法去除所有的干扰，或完全收起科技产品，但是拿出时间抬头看看会极大地改善彼此间的交流。

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