Make up your mind—even if you make a mistake下定决心——即使这是错误的决定
Not all risk-taking involves big, life-changing actions. And while confidence is centered on taking action, it’s important to remember that often action is about small-scale, everyday decision-making. Speedy decisions can be a confidence crucible for women, who usually want to get everything “right.” Beth Wilkinson, one of the most sought-after litigators in the country, is a consummate risk-taker, and one of the most confident women we know. She is an expert “decider.” She learned early on that making the basic decisions quickly, and moving on, not only taught her to learn from failure but also left her mental freedom to think more clearly about the biggest issues. She admits, laughing, that she’s become addicted to quick decision-making. “There’s fall out. I get things wrong, but I usually learn from it,” she shrugs.
并不是每一次的冒险都会影响巨大、改变人生。当你将信心集中于采取行动时,你得记住这些行动常常只是一些细小且日常的决策,这一点十分重要。快速决策对于女性的自信心来说可能是一场严酷的考验,对于那些总想确保万无一失的人来说尤是如此。美国最炙手可热的律师贝斯·威尔金森,可能是我们所知的最自信的女性之一,作为一个完美的“冒险者”,她在做决策的方面堪称专家。她很早就知道如何迅速作出基本的决定,以及如何继续勇往直前,这不仅教会了她如何在失败中吸取教训,还给了她自主思考的空间,将一些重大问题梳理得更清楚。她笑着承认,她已经对这种迅速决定的方式上瘾了。“有时候我也会和别人争执。我也会把事情搞砸,但是我也常常从中能学到东西。”她耸耸肩说道。
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