几年前,盛德国际律师事务所(Sidley Austin)投资管理业务部的全球联席主管劳林o布鲁门塔尔o克莱曼,收到一个糟糕的通知:她第二个儿子就读的学校拒绝在秋天继续给他提供上学机会。儿子的特殊需求让她很难找到合适的学校,而且当时再去找其他学校已经为时已晚。克莱曼回忆道:“我们本来认为他会在那里取得成功,根本没有备选方案,结果却被抛弃。”
She approached her boss to ask for time away from work so she could manage the school search and mandatory meetings. “He looked so concerned that I just started weeping,” she says.
于是,她找老板请假,去解决孩子的择校问题和一些必须参加的会议。她说道:“他看起来非常关心我的事,所以我禁不住哭了起来。”
How to respond to tears
如何应对泪水
If you’re crying because of frustration with a work issue, don’t ignore the situation, advises Joan Williams, professor at the University of California Hastings School of Law. Instead, say, “When I’m crying, it’s because I’m pissed. This is what it looks like when I am really outraged.”
加州大学哈斯汀法学院(University of California Hastings School of Law)教授乔安o威廉姆斯建议,如果你因为工作问题导致的沮丧而哭泣,不要忽视这种情况。相反,要说出来:“我之所以在哭泣,是因为我很生气。这就是我真正愤怒时候的样子。”
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