9个特征让你成为真正自信的人_BEC初级作文

9个特征让你成为真正自信的人

Truly confident people don’t care – at least they don’t show it. (Inside they’re proud, as well they should be.) Truly confident people don’t need the glory; they know what they’ve achieved.

但真正自信的人不会在意——至少他们不会表现出来。（在心里他们很骄傲，他们也应该骄傲。）真正自信的人不需要荣誉；他们知道他们已经做到了。

They don’t need the validation of others, because true validation comes from within.

他们不需要他人的认可。因为真正的认可来自内心。

So they stand back and celebrate their accomplishments through others. They stand back and let others shine – a confidence boost that helps those people become truly confident, too.

所以，他们退后，通过别人庆祝自己的成就。他们对后，让别人发光——这是一种帮助别人同样变得自信的自信心。

4. They freely ask for help.

4. 他们也要求帮助。

Many people feel asking for help is a sign of weakness; implicit in the request is a lack of knowledge, skill, or experience.

很多人觉得求助是软弱的象征，在这一要求中暗示了知识、技能或是经验的缺失。

Confident people are secure enough to admit a weakness. So they often ask others for help, not only because they are secure enough to admit they need help but also because they know that when they seek help they pay the person they ask a huge compliment.