And very quietly, without calling attention to themselves, they go out and do it.
静悄悄的,没有引起任何人注意,他们就着手开始做了。
6. They don't put down other people.
6. 他们不会让其他人失望。
Generally speaking, the people who like to gossip, who like to speak badly of others, do so because they hope by comparison to make themselves look better.
总的来说,喜欢八卦,喜欢说别人坏话的人这么做事因为他们希望这种比较能让他们看起来好点。
The only comparison a truly confident person makes is to the person she was yesterday – and to the person she hopes to someday become.
真正自信的人唯一做的比较是和昨天的自己相比较——以及和他希望未来成为的人比较。
7. They aren’t afraid to look silly…
7. 他们不怕丢脸……
Running around in your underwear is certainly taking it to extremes… but when you’re truly confident, you don’t mind occasionally being in a situation where you aren't at your best.
穿着内衣四处跑当然是个极端情况——但是如果你真的自信,你不会在意偶尔状态不好的情况。
(And oddly enough, people tend to respect you more when you do – not less.)
(奇怪的是,如果你这么做了,人们反而会更尊敬你。)
8. … And they own their mistakes.
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