When someone is near you, make sure you look receptive. Don’t cross your arms over your chest. Instead, put your arms down, or behind your back, making your body look more open. Smile or at least relax your face so you don’t look tense.

当有人靠近时，请表现得可亲些。不要胳膊交叉着抱胸；相反，你应该放下胳膊，或背到后面去，让整个人显得开放些。请微笑，或者至少放松面部表情，以免显得太紧张。

3. Assume the other person is shy

假设对方比较害羞。

So if you’re shy and they’re shy, how are you going to meet? Well, since you’re the one reading this article, you have the advantage and can assume the other person is too shy to say anything. So, overcome your fear and walk over to them. Talk about the weather or baseball or if they’re holding a book or magazine, ask what they’re reading. You’d be amazed at how many connections are made by simply saying, “some weather we’re having, huh?”

如果你很害羞，对方也很害羞，相互还怎么去认识呢？既然你看到了这篇文章，何不学学这招：假设对方太害羞，都不敢轻易开口讲话。这样，你便能战胜恐惧，勇敢向对方走去了。你可以先谈谈天气或棒球，如果对方手里拿着书或杂志，那就问问他在读什么。你会讶然发现，其实有时候一句简单的“天气真糟糕，是吧？”就能开启一段新友谊。

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