True wisdom involves recognizing the negative both within and outside ourselves and trying to learn from it, she said.
她补充道,真正的智慧包括认识到自己内外部的负面因素,并试图从中汲取教训。
Modern definitions of wisdom tend to stress kindness — even if it's not on the order of Buddha, Gandhi or the ** Lama. Wisdom is characterized by a "reduction in self-centeredness," Professor Ardelt said. Wise people try to understand situations from multiple perspectives, not just their own, and they show tolerance as a result.
智慧的现代定义往往更强调慈悲——尽管佛陀、甘地和达赖喇嘛的教诲中并没有这么一条。智慧的显著特点在于“减少自我中心”,阿尔德特教授说。智者会尝试从多个角度而不仅从他们自己的立场来了解情况,因此表现得更加宽容。
"There's evidence that people who rank high in neuroticism are unlikely to be wise," said Laura L. Carstensen, a psychology professor and founding director of the Stanford Center on Longevity in California. "They see things in a self-centered and negative way and so they fail to benefit emotionally from experience, even though they may be very intelligent."
“有证据表明,神经质指数偏高的人不太可能会很明智,”加州斯坦福长寿研究中心(Stanford Center on Longevity in California)的创始主任、心理学教授劳拉·L·卡斯滕森(Laura L. Carstensen)说:“他们以自我中心和消极的方式来看待世界,所以他们无法从经验中获得情感层面上的效益——即使他们可能相当聪明。”
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