12年婚姻我们如何顺利度过七年之痒_BEC初级作文

12年婚姻我们如何顺利度过七年之痒

在我和布鲁克约会的最初阶段，我使出浑身解数。我们去远足，我为她办烛光晚餐，我对她紧追不放苦苦追求。随着年龄的增长和家庭责任的增加，我追求她的那股激情已经不多了。保持冒险精神并不需要像去巴黎旅游那样才算，可以是最后去一次一个当地的酒店，也可以是让保姆照顾孩子一晚，就连随手留个便条也算。让婚姻具有冒险精神。

3. Kiss Each Other First.

3. 先亲对方。

I'm imperfect at this, but I try to kiss Brooke first when I get home from work. Before I kiss our five kids. It's a small thing that points to a much bigger reality. For me to be a great dad, I have to be a great husband first. Otherwise, we'll become roommates who are collectively raising our kids.

我在这方面做得不够好，但我下班回家的时候，我试着会先吻布鲁克。之后我再亲我们的五个孩子。这件小事却能以小见大。对我来说，我要想成为一位好爸爸，就必须先成为一个好丈夫。否则，我们就像室友一样，共同抚养我们的孩子。

4. Grit Is Often The Best Description Of Love.

4. 勇气往往是爱的最好诠释。

It was easy to love Brooke when we were newlyweds. Easy for her to love me during seasons of comfort. But it's much more difficult to fight for love when you lose a baby. Or have a huge financial setback. Or confess a really ugly secret about yourself. Fairy tales are great for movies, but real life is more often confusing, chaotic and messy. Dig in when it gets hard.