12年婚姻我们如何顺利度过七年之痒_BEC初级作文

12年婚姻我们如何顺利度过七年之痒

在我们新婚阶段我爱着布鲁克她爱着我都是很容易做到的。但在你失去一个孩子后，再去争取爱这件事就变得比较困难。在金融方面有很大的挫折，不爱承认自己丑陋的秘密。童话故事总是发生在电影里，而现实生活却往往没那么美好，现实生活一团乱麻、混乱不堪，较真儿深究的话，更是没有头绪。

5. Real Life Happens In The Mundane.

5. 现实生活是在平凡中度过的。

Huge promotions, babies being born, buying the dream house. The peaks of marriage are great. However, most days are mundane. I've been guilty of missing the little moments while I work to make the big ones happen. I'm realizing that life happens in those little moments. I'm learning to love the journey every bit as much as the destination.

升职、孩子出生、买到理想的房子。婚姻的几个颠覆时刻是很美好的，但是大部分的日子却是在平凡中度过的。我一直努力去实现那些生活中的大事件，但却错过了生活中平凡的小幸福时光而心中满怀内疚。这些平凡的时光才算是生活。我试着爱上旅途的过程，旅途的过程和目的地一样重要。

6. Proximity Doesn't Equal Presence.

6. 单纯待在一起不代表关系亲密。

Getting home from work early, getting a sitter for a date and even taking a vacation alone are all great things. But physically being close isn't the same as being close emotionally. For me, most of the time that looks like staring at my iPhone instead of looking my wife in the eye. Being more concerned with my Twitter or Instagram feed than I am about hearing my wife's heart. When you have the ability to be together physically, be there emotionally as well.