孩子在潜移默化中向大人学习的三件事_BEC初级作文

孩子在潜移默化中向大人学习的三件事

孩子们通过观察父母来学习与人交往。你与你的伴侣之间怎样交往的呢？你们之中由谁来做决定？当有不同意见时，是以争吵或眼泪结束吗？你们每天都表现出了对彼此的尊重吗？你的孩子看到了你们伉俪彼此鹣鲽情深的样子吗？这些问题能有助于孩子建立对于交往与婚姻的价值观。以身作则，用您期望孩子将来处理婚姻爱情的理想方式，过好现在的生活。不要觉得孩子们永远不应该看到父母的争执，或父母之间不满的情绪。但是，也请记住，你的孩子看到的你与你伴侣之间的关系，也会成为将来他自己未来的夫妻关系的参考标准。您和您的伴侣愿意成为孩子学习的榜样吗？

Children learn what’s the most important to their parents. You may just think that you are sitting down to send a few emails, but if your child asks for your attention and you ask them to hold on, they’ve learned something from this interaction. If your child sees you and your spouse sitting down in front of the television every night and not communicating, they’ve learned something from that, too. On the other hand, if your children see you hiring a babysitter so you and your spouse can go out on a date, they’ve learned that you both value your relationship and making time for one another. If you decide not to worry about cleaning the bathroom and play a game of Chutes and Ladders instead, they’ve learned that they are more important to you than a clean house. Of course, you can’t be expected to be at your child’s beckoned call every day. But remember that your children learn about what matters most to you by what you do, not what you say.