3. Avoid deeply offensive words
3.不要说一些很伤人的话
We’re living in a democratic world where we’re free to express our opinions and tell almost everything we want. Word is a unique and powerful thing that exerts a big influence on human mind. If you’re at odds with your mother, you should be careful what you say to her. Sometimes your word can be either a perfect pain reliever or a terrible weapon. Sooner or later, you’ll apologize for your bad behavior, but the words you’ve uttered and the feeling of resentment will live in her heart forever.
我们生活在一个民主世界里,我们可以自由地表达我们的观点,也可以说几乎任何我们想说的话。话语是能对人类思想产生巨大影响的独一无二的强有力的东西。如果你跟你妈妈有什么争执的地方,你应该注意你对她说的话。有时候你的话可能会是一种完美的镇痛剂,但也有可能是一种伤人的武器。迟早,你会为你不好的行为道歉,但是你说出去的话以及那种愤恨的感觉会永远留在她心底。
4. Don’t draw other family members into a conflict
4.不要把其他家庭成员卷进冲突里面
I must confess that earlier I had a terrible habit of drawing my brother and dad into conflicts between me and my mom. I wanted them to support me and help us find a mutually beneficial solution. Unfortunately, their active participation only intensified the problem. As a result, small and insignificant mother-daughter fights grew into long-lasting family conflicts. I learned a big lesson and realized that my bad temper made my family suffer.
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